So.. my best friend suggested that I blog more. well perhaps she is right..did you miss me? Sometimes I fail to blog because I go through spurts where I am super crabby (I blame of the lack of sun..lately)While this is my blog so I can mouth off as much as I want to.. I feel like I dont want to just go off about stuff that makes me mad. I am also really bad about reflecting..(when it comes to myself anyways. ). If this doesnt make sense well i apologize and Im feeling super creative (dont ask why)plus its 3 Am..
One of the hardest lessons in life is not to take things personally. You know how I am but when I talk about you, Im talking in general terms. Anyways, there will always be that person that is mean. It could be a co worker, manager, friend,etc. I know that it hurts, to feel unaccepted. I know that it is painful when you feel ignored and mislead. But this one of those cliches that is so true.. It's not you it's them. Know that you are amazing, You are beautiful and charming. If someone doesnt want to date you, if someone doesnt want to go out with you because you are not thin enough (etc.) Its ok because you probably dont want them in your life anyways. It really is their loss. Also, like my dear friend stacy said the other day if someone says mean things about you it is often because they are not happy on the inside. What is also interesting about life is Karma. I got to admit that karma can really make me giggle. How many times do we look back and say to ourselves we wish we would have done things differently. The best way to seek revenge on someone who has rejected you, ignored you, treated you poorly is to kill them with kindness. Pray for them and treat them nicely. Well and be the best you. Be successful. Become a hot mama, a doctor, a belly dancer, a business woman, whatever.. the list could go on and on and on
SO.. today I am going to be me. The clumsy crazy goofy me. Im going to be quirky and probably boast my sparkly glasses. Im going to surround myself with people who love me. By the way there are so many people that love you (and me). Its amazing that people are praying for you right now and you dont even realize it.
I hope that today you can be the best you, be proud no matter what anyone else says. Rock what you were blessed. Shine like the star you were destined to be.
Well and no matter what anyone else says you matter to God. With Jesus you will never be rejected, disrespected, ignored or abandoned. He is the Perfect friend.